What If My Baby Doesn’t Sleep During the Newborn Session?

If you’re planning an in-home newborn photography session and wondering, “What happens if my baby doesn’t sleep during the photos?“, you’re not alone in being curious about this! This is one of the most common concerns I hear from new parents. Rest assured, it’s completely normal for newborns to be wide awake during parts (or all!) of a session, and I promise we can still create beautiful images!

As a newborn photographer serving the Milwaukee area, I want to share why you don’t need to stress if your baby is more alert than sleepy. With the right approach and experience, we can still capture beautiful, heartfelt images that you will love! In fact, many moms love the awake shots just as much as, or more than, the sleepy ones!

Awake Newborn Photos Are Just as Special

While sleepy baby photos are beautiful and I do have a goal for your baby to sleep at some point during your session, awake newborn photos are just as meaningful. When your baby is awake and content, we can capture wide eyes, sweet expressions, and natural interactions between you and your little one. These moments are often some of my favorites from a session.

Because we’re photographing your family in the comfort of your own home (and in your arms! This is not a posed session with baskets and props!), your baby will likely feel more at ease, even if they’re alert. The result? A relaxed, baby-led session that reflects your real connection as a new family, which is what we are really after.

Why Working With an Experienced Newborn Photographer Matters

When your baby doesn’t fall asleep easily, having a photographer who knows how to read baby cues and respond gently is essential. With years of experience in newborn photography, I’ve learned how to soothe and guide babies without rushing or forcing them into positions that don’t feel natural. I’ve learned positions that will be comfortable for them in awake positions as well as positions that are comfortable when they are sleeping. Forcing your baby into positions that are best done with a sleeping baby is not only unsafe, but will make for a very uncomfortable newborn!

My experience with newborns is more than just posing them. It’s reading cues, knowing how to comfort them, being in confident in soothing them, and having techniques with swaddling that will be sure to help in the sleep efforts.

From swaddling and rocking to creating a calm environment, I bring a peaceful, confident presence to your session—so you don’t have to worry about a thing!

This session, an in-home session in Cedarburg, was one where the baby was awake for the vast majority of the session! I LOVE the images we captured, and many at the beginning of our session were all done with baby awake!

Baby awake for in home newborn session in Cedarburg WI
baby and dog during newborn session in Milwaukee by Abby Park Photography
Abby Park Photography newborn session with mom holding baby
Detail shot of baby toes in black and white taken in Milwaukee area by Abby Park Photography
Family portrait during in home lifestyle newborn session

Comfortable, Baby-Led Posing (Awake or Asleep)

Whether your baby is snoozing or wide-eyed, comfort and safety are always my top priorities. I never use unnatural poses that require babies to be deeply asleep. Instead, I focus on gentle, natural positioning that supports your baby’s body and allows for sweet, authentic photos whether awake or asleep.

Awake newborns can still be swaddled, held in your arms, or gently laid in soft, cozy spots around your home. These simple setups create timeless images that feel true to your family.

There’s Time for Everything—Including Sleep

Another key to a stress-free session? Time. My in-home newborn sessions are intentionally unrushed, giving us space for breaks, feedings, diaper changes, or whatever baby needs. I always tell clients that I don’t leave until I get what I need! In most cases, even the most alert newborn will drift off to sleep at some point, and when that happens, we’ll be ready to capture those dreamy, snuggly images, too.

The flexible pacing means there’s no pressure—and a high chance we’ll capture both awake and sleepy newborn photos.


The Real Focus: Love, Connection, and Your New Story

At the end of the day, the goal of your newborn photo session isn’t perfection, it’s connection. Whether your baby is asleep, wide-eyed, or somewhere in between, the beauty lies in your bond, the way you hold them, and the family you’ve created.


Ready to Book Your In-Home Newborn Photography Session?

If you’re looking for a calm, baby-led experience with a Milwaukee newborn photographer who knows how to capture both awake and sleepy moments with care and experience, I’d love to connect. Let’s create some beautiful images of your new family!!

Reach out here to schedule your newborn session or learn more about what to expect!